Private Money vs. Bank Loans

The Power of Personal Lending

As a Private Money Broker I’m frequently asked how and why borrowing from a private lender is different than borrowing from a bank. I like to answer by using an illustration.  Imagine your cousin asks to borrow $5,000 to buy a used truck. If he walks into a bank to apply for a loan, the bank will follow a rigid, standardized process. They’ll check his credit score, verify his income, analyze his debt-to-income ratio, and make him jump through a series of bureaucratic hoops. If he doesn’t fit their strict criteria, they’ll simply deny him—no exceptions, no personal consideration.

But what if he comes to you instead? As a private lender, your decision-making process is entirely different. You’re not looking at a credit score or running calculations on debt-to-income ratios. Instead, you’re evaluating the situation from a personal perspective.

• You know your cousin. You’ve seen how responsible (or irresponsible) he is with money.

• You understand why he needs the truck—maybe it’s for a new business or a job opportunity.

• You consider your own financial position—can you afford to take the risk?

• You might negotiate flexible repayment terms based on what he can afford.

• And most importantly, your decision is based on trust, opportunity, and a relationship—not just cold, hard numbers.

This personal approach is the essence of private money lending. Unlike banks, private lenders don’t rely solely on a borrower’s financial history; they focus on the real estate deal itself, the borrower’s experience, and the potential for a win-win situation.

How Private Money Lending Stands Apart

1. Relationship-Based vs. Policy-Based:  Banks operate on strict guidelines, making decisions based on risk models, credit history, and rigid approval processes. Private lenders, however, build relationships with borrowers. They assess deals based on real-world factors, not just paperwork.

2. Flexible Terms vs. Standardized Terms: A bank loan comes with fixed terms: set interest rates, repayment schedules, and strict rules. Private lenders, like you lending money to your cousin, can structure deals creatively—interest-only payments, profit-sharing agreements, or short-term balloon payments.

3. Speed vs. Red Tape: Banks take weeks or months to approve loans, requiring stacks of documentation. Private lenders can close deals in days, focusing on the value of the asset (the property) rather than bureaucratic procedures.

4. Opportunity vs. Risk Avoidance: Banks lend conservatively, prioritizing their own security above all else. Private lenders see opportunity—if the deal makes sense and the borrower has a solid plan, funding is possible, even if a bank would say no.

The Bottom Line

Private money lending is personal, flexible, and opportunity-driven. Just like you might lend your cousin money based on trust and circumstances rather than a rigid formula, private lenders evaluate real estate deals with a focus on potential, not just numbers.

That’s why real estate investors turn to private money. It’s not just about getting funded—it’s about building relationships that fuel success.

Need funding for your next deal? Let’s talk!

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